Let’s Play The Game Of Rewinding With Kids

I am one of those mothers among many, who was fortunate enough to be a part of that era, the bygone era where happiness was just not a product of globalization or affluence but it was more of a thing found here and there, lanes and by lanes, rain drops and sunsets, flies and grasshoppers, street “gol gappa’s” and local “jalebis”, muddy hands and stolen flowers.

Things Today's Kids Will Never Experience - Let’s Play The Game Of Rewinding With Kids

An enriching experience when childhood was a little carefree, careless and less objectified not all draped in glorious brands or glitzy covers… it was as simple as happiness.

Our childhood was all about finding happiness in small things.

I still remember those good old days when I was pampered by just a little coin once a fortnight or a week to gulp on those road side delights. Supposedly a plate of paani poori from that vendor whom we affectionately addressed as “Bhaiya” and it gave us a joy of lifetime, endlessly waiting for that special day to come.

And after having those sumptuous treat, had to wait for another week to have another delicacy… might be the bhel all wrapped in that drab looking plate or may be the local khatta meetha goli” being sold outside our school. Good old days, meagre pocket-money, an absolute bliss.

But these days, kids are quite over sensitive and protective with parents like us who are quite fussy or may be over particular about everything. Those joys had that unique sensation which is lacking in this generation. Having a treat is just not very common these days because those are mundane things. Kids are actually losing the value of finer pleasures.

Watching the first cloud of monsoon and getting wet in the first showers, holding a little grasshopper in that tiny fist, sniffing those tiny fresh flowers from neighbours garden and even stealing a glance and putting some in that frock’s pocket, making wonderful delights with “ghaas phus” in that little kitchen set bought from that local market were so much a joyous fiesta, which the fanciest of hi-tech games cannot impart.

Buying a new toy or a gift was a great motivator in our days but now heaps of toys, gazettes are just a child’s game. The monotonousness still persists, yearning gets bigger, craving for “more” is another symptomatic behaviour resulting in “no contentment syndrome”. The mirage gets bigger and bigger. Illusions boundless.

Value of everything is diminishing gradually. Materialistic goods are infinite but joys are so finite, temporal and object oriented. Pleasures are illimitable but sense of gratification so less.

Change in lifestyle, nuclear families, globalisation, extensive utilitarianism and abundance of everything has diminished contentment.

Happiness is just another butterfly these days hopping around…

Let’s start again from where we had left… Let children catch those little objects of happiness here and there.

Ronita-Maitra Bhandari is a free-lance creative writer who writes for various sites and blogs. She has also done a certified course in “Positive Parenting” from U.K. She is a mom to a 7-year-old and loves nurturing her greatest resource, her daughter. Apart from writing she is a nature lover and gets energised wandering around green patches. She believes family is a treasure chest and children are those precious jewels in the chest who sparkle to illuminate lives. What else would one desire to live a rich life?

  • SriEA

    Completely agree with you!

    Nowadays kids don’t realise the value of the things they have and keep asking more and more..

    Every birthday party is a grand celebration with planned themes and expensive return gifts..

  • ronita

    Thanks SriEa…absolutely…happiness is not measured always in quantum of wealth and expensive things, it can be achieved thru finer pleasures in lyf…contentment is a word which should be inculcated in a kid’s dictionary…it’s my opinion though:)

  • Sunita Rajwade

    Indeed the simple pleasures of life are slowly getting out of reach. Butterflies themselves are far and few and time to catch them rarer still………

    • ronita

      Indeed so….. and if they find also they won’t appreciate the beauty…coz concept of beauty has changed …Thanks for reading Sunita Rajwade…